Have you ever noticed that there is a link between
generosity, happiness, and prosperity? Most of us know someone, hopefully
several someones, who give so generously and yet always have plenty more for
themselves -- and additional giving. There's a joy and a happiness about them
that is both attractive and inspiring. Thankfully, many of these people are
business owners and business professionals that are making a huge impact in the
communities in which they serve. While they are not always easy to spot,
usually by design, their impact is undeniable and can be seen in at least three
specific ways.
Givers are generous with their resources: So many successful
business owners, entrepreneurs, and professionals have built their business
from the ground up. They know what it is like to struggle and they have a
genuine appreciation for what they have received as a result of their hard
work, and they can usually point back to a time when someone helped them. In
appreciation and gratitude, they want to give back by either "paying it
forward" or by giving from their own abundance.
Givers are generous with their time: I've noticed that most
generous business people are willing to give their time to a cause, an event, a
community organization, or an educational opportunity. You find them serving on
boards, volunteering for events, or bringing perspective to a project. The
great ones are not afraid to get their hands dirty and never seek attention or
recognition for their efforts. Time is a precious gift, and they are willing to
give it.
Givers are generous with their wisdom and knowledge: One of
the benchmarks of a truly successful business owner or entrepreneur is their
willingness to share what they have learned in their journey. While you may not
get any trade secrets, particularly if you are a competitor, you will get
valuable nuggets -- if you are open to receiving them. My experience shows that
these people are not only willing to share their wisdom, they are eager and
honored to do it. In a time when mentorship and coaching are so desperately
needed, these are the people who stand up and fill the gap. As with resources
and time, they want to give back and find happiness and joy in the effort. Test
this for yourself and see if it isn't true.
Just a quick word of caution: If we are not willing to be
generous in return, we'll quickly find our precious access cut off or severely
limited. Users and takers are quickly sorted out and may find themselves on the
outside looking in. There is a difference between charity and empowerment --
and there is a time for both. However, sooner or later the true giver, out of
obligation to those who "will", must move on and invest their
resources where they are likely to grow -- not in direct return for themselves,
but for the betterment and advancement of others. The principle of sowing and
reaping takes care of the giver and they are seldom in want.
It is this cycle, and this attitude toward giving that
produces new generations of givers and those who will pay it forward, without
hesitation and with a joyful heart. So let's start where we are, with what we
have, and begin or expand our own cycle of generosity.
Happiness and prosperity are highly sought after and may
just be found on the other side of generosity. I wish you well in your journey
to that other side.
Send this to the givers you know and thank them for their great generosity.
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