Tuesday, February 27, 2018

Kindle Your Own Flame!

"Build a man a fire, and he'll be warm for a day. Set a man on fire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life." -- Terry Pratchett

What is it about a roaring fire that captures our attention and draws us to it? As a young teenager, I went on several camping trips with our next-door neighbor. I remember walking around the campground at night and seeing all of the different campfires and the groups of people that surrounded them. I also remember thinking how some of these fires were big and impressive while others were small, and accept for the faint light, barely noticeable. There was also a big difference in the energy and enthusiasm of the people who surrounded the fire pits --- and it seemed to be in direct correlation to the size of the flames and the heat they generated.

Those who surrounded the large fires laughed harder, talked louder and in many cases were on their feet and actively engaged with one another. On the other hand, those who sat around the small fires were generally much quieter and even somewhat subdued -- and they were always far less in number. If I watched long enough, I would notice how they sometimes sat slumped and motionless with their eyes fixed on the fire but seemingly seeing something entirely different. What were they thinking about? Past? Present? Future? Was the fire slowly dying by design or had they become so distracted in their trance-like stares they simply didn't notice the flames were going out. Were they, in their obvious comfort, waiting for someone else to get up and make something happen? I know I never had a desire to hang around and find out.

Just down the way, there was excitement that matched the intensity of the rising flames. Greater numbers brought greater energy, noticeable excitement, and even shared contribution. Looking around, several people had pieces of wood in their hand and stood ready to do what they could to keep the fire burning. Others shouted out encouragement or helped select the logs and timbers. These are the people that had learned what it takes to kindle a big fire.

It's hard to miss a fire like that -- and it's hard not to gravitate in that direction to see what's going and how we can be part of it. On any given night, there are dozens or even hundreds of fires burning across the campground. Yet, only a handful are memorable, irresistible, and maybe even unforgettable.

I think the same holds true across the business landscape. On any given day, there are dozens or even hundreds of businesses operating within our market. But, how many of them are really drawing attention to themselves and creating a burning desire for others to join them as customers -- or to match their intensity as affiliates, partners, or even competitors? How many stand out so brightly that we can't help but notice them and find ourselves gravitating toward them to see what the excitement is all about?

The real question is how many of us own or strategically work for such a business? Why not? To some degree we're all tending the embers of our daily business or occupational existence. Is our campfire drawing the people we want to gather around it and even help us fan the flames to reach higher levels of intensity? Why not? Why should we merely sit and stare at what we've built while we think about the glory days of the past, the concerns of the present, or the uncertainty of the future? Do we want a fire that gets the job done or one that lights the way for ourselves and the others who will inevitably find it?

Unless we plan to fold our tent and break camp, we'll need to build tomorrow's fire. What kind of a fire will it be? Who will help you build it? Who will you invite to watch it burn?

About the Author: Terry Crouson is the Owner and Head Coach at Silver Coach Solutions, LLC and is currently doing business as The Growth Coach of West Metro Detroit. He is dedicated to helping business owners, executives, entrepreneurs, sales professionals, and self-employed professionals find their way by finding their why. He is a highly respected business coach, speaker, facilitator, and community builder. Terry is certified in the Strategic Mindset Process, and is also a DISC Certified Behavioral Consultant.

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